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be sensitive to his readiness to play. He may want to snuggle for a few minutes as he watches other preschoolers.
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sing. Make up a song using her name.
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play a cassette tape of quiet music. Rock or sway to the beat as you hold him.
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physically relax yourself. A preschooler senses when you are tense or anxious.
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wipe eyes and nose of a fretful preschooler. Say: "Amy has a pretty nose. God gave Amy a nose to smell with." Inhale and exhale slowly. A crying child may "copy" your slow breathing, which may help chase the "sobs" away.
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check the basics. Is he wet, hungry, hot, cold, or feverish? Sometimes an unhappy child simply needs his physical needs met immediately upon arrival. Respond to him quickly and in love.
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check emotional needs. Is she bored or lonely? Some ones and twos like to be snuggled; others need their own space. Even if you sense that she needs space, continue to make eye contact that says: "You are important. I love you.,,
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keep bubbles, a picture, or bright toy beside the door. Use these items to encourage children to enter the room. Ask a question such as, "Where's the goldfish, Charlie?" Charlie's curiosity may help him forget about crying.
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