1. WELCOME TO MY316!
    2. TWO OPTIONS
    3. RESOURCES
      1. INTRODUCTION:
      2. MY316:
      3. CLOSING
  1. SESSION ONE: STORIES
  2. _____________________________
  3. Look it up!
  4. Matthew 18:11 Matthew 20:28
  5. Mark 2:17
  6. Luke 4:43 Luke 19:10 John 3:17 John 10:10
      1. SESSION ONE POSTER / HANDOUT SUGGESTIONS
      2. John 3:16 Poster
      3. MY316 Visual
    1. should not perish
    2. but have everlasting life.
    3. John 3:16 (NKJV)
      1. OPENING (10 minutes)
      2. INTRODUCTION: A MESSAGE TO DELIVER (5 minutes)
      3. IT’S SIWMHAPLT I KYNOW (20 minutes)
      4. TYING IT ALL TOGETHER (15 minutes)
      5. CLOSING (10 minutes)
  7. SESSION TWO: SHARE
  8. I John 4:7-8
    1. _____________________________
  9. I John 2:2 / 2 Peter 3:9
    1. _____________________________
  10. Romans 5:8 / Isaiah 53:5
  11. __________________________
  12. Romans 10:9-10
  13. __________________________
  14. John 10:10 / I John 5:12
  15. __________________________
  16. MY316 HOMEWORK
      1. OPENING (10 minutes)
      2. INTRODUCTION:
      3. STANDING IN THE NEED (5 minutes)
      4. WE ARE THE ANSWER (20 minutes)
      5. CLOSING (10 minutes)
  17. SESSION THREE: PRAY
      1. OPENING (10 minutes)
      2. INTRODUCTION: CHARISMA (10 minutes)
      3. GRACE IS A VERB (30 minutes)
      4. CLOSING (5 minutes)
  18. Luke 6:35, 38 (NKJV)
  19. SESSION FOUR: SERVE
      1. OPENING (10 minutes)
      2. INTRODUCTION: PASS IT ON (5 minutes)
      3. THE ROLE OF DISCIPLER (10 minutes)
      4. MY316 NEW BELIEVER’S BOOK(25 minutes)
      5. CLOSING (10 minutes)


WELCOME TO MY316!
If you could choose one way to teach everybody in
your church how to share Jesus with others, how
would you choose to do it? MY316 would be a good
option because it helps every church member, even
children, to not only share their testimony verbally,
but to put it into action as well.
MY316 does this by helping you use what you
already know to share Jesus with your friends and
family. You know John 3:16 and you know what He
has done for you; so, you already know all you need
to know to share Jesus with others.
Researchers tell us that John 3:16 is a verse that
most people in Oklahoma already know. This makes
it a familiar method to share. John 3:16 is the
gospel in a nutshell. This makes it a thorough way to
share. John 3:16 was originally spoken by Christ
Himself. This makes it a powerful way to share! And
what better way to share your own story than
linking it with the powerful words of our Lord!
So, we hope you will use this valuable resource to
equip your people to effectively reach your
community for Jesus Christ in a personal and
powerful way.
TWO OPTIONS
We have provided you with two options to utilize
MY316.
OPTION ONE: We have included complete lesson
plans for five sessions that will fit into a normal
Sunday School time frame. This will allow your
group to work through the MY316 emphasis in
detail and to practice the various elements as a
group.
OPTION TWO: We have also included a MY316
Highlight plan. This is a 10-12 minute emphasis that
you could use at the beginning of your class period
each week to encourage your members to get
involved in reaching their friends and family and to
“take it personally.”
RESOURCES
Each downloaded session has a lesson plan for the
leader and student handouts to help with note
taking and assignments.
In addition, optional pieces can be downloaded
from www.bgco.org/MY316. You can also call
Lindsey Craig at (405) 942-3000 ext. 4313 to order
materials.
Also, visit www.MY316.com
and read the
information and testimonies to see how God is
blessing people and how He is using this powerful
witnessing tool. You can even add your own
thoughts and stories.

WEEK ONE: STORIES
BEFORE THE SESSION BEGINS
Copy Worksheets (1 per member).
Gather Pens or Pencils.
Read through your lesson plan and work
through the worksheet for yourself so you
can lead others through it.
Prepare optional posters, handouts or
visuals as suggested to highlight the session
(see attached page for suggestions).
REMEMBER: This is MY 316. You want your class to
take it personally and interject themselves into the
story. This means you will need to focus on being a
facilitator, not a lecturer. At times you may have to
endure the awkwardness of silence as people
consider some things they have never looked at
before. You can help this process by looking ahead
each week and making a personal contact or two
with some class members, asking them to be
prepared to share in class.
Also be aware that your class should have lost
people present as well, so there may be items that
they cannot share experientially.
Pray that by
hearing the stories of others, they may realize that
something is missing from their lives.
What a
blessing if your first “MY316” victories came from
those closest to you!
OPENING (10 minutes)
Take a few minutes to open your class with some of
your usual procedures (welcome guests, call for
prayer requests or reports, announcements, etc.).
INTRODUCTION:
EVERYBODY HAS A STORY (15 minutes)
Everybody has a story and most everybody loves to
tell it. It may be a favorite vacation story, a funny or
special pet they had, that frantic trip to the hospital
maternity ward, and the list could go on and on.
The truth is, we all have many of those stories and
we love to tell them over and over in spite of how
many times you’ve already heard them.
Verbal Activity: Ask 3-4 class members to share one
of these stories, but warn them ahead of time that
they only have 1 minute to share the story. Appoint
a time keeper!
It’s hard to tell these stories in a limited time, isn’t
it? It’s hard to summarize all of the feelings, events
and outcomes that succinctly. So, imagine how
difficult it might be to summarize your life in a
couple of sentences! Certainly you couldn’t recall
specific events, dates or characters. But could you,
in one short thought, in a brief paragraph of 2-3
sentences, sum up the purpose and plan of your
life? Try it.
Worksheet Activity: On the worksheet, ask them to
write a brief paragraph of 25 words or less that
would sum up their life’s purpose, goal or focus.
After a few minutes, ask a few to share what they
wrote.
HIS STORY (10 minutes)
Jesus was a master story teller and could say a lot in
very little space. His parables are literary
masterpieces. Most of these parables were less
than a dozen verses. One of the longest, “The
Prodigal
Son,” was less t
,
h
21
a
vers
n
es
a
,
page long
and yet Charles Dickens called it the greatest short
story ever written!
In just 33 years on this earth, Jesus lived a full life.
Read John 21:24-25
. John, a personal witness of
only three years of that life, says that a library as big
as the earth could not contain His story. And since
He was here before time, it could truly be said that
all of history is HIS story.
But the Master storyteller on more than one
occasion summarized His life in a single statement.
Worksheet Activity: Ask various class members to
look up the verses listed on the worksheet (Matthew
18:11; Matthew 20:28; Mark 2:17; Luke 4:43; Luke
19:10; John 3:17; John 10:10) and read them aloud
to the class. How would you sum up His purpose?

These verses are just a sampling of the statements
that Christ made about Himself, which were echoed
by many of the men who penned the Scriptures. But
of all of those “red letter verses” none is more
beloved, more widely known or more descriptive of
His life purpose than this:
Read John 3:16 from the NKJV and display your John
3:16 poster. Leave it up during the 5 week emphasis
as a reminder and memory tool.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only
begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should
not perish but have everlasting life.
That’s
Twe
it!
nty-five words! The gospel in a
nutshell! The reason Christ came to this earth…the
summation of His life’s purpose. He showed God’s
love by giving up His life so that we could have life!
And thanks to that, we can now be a part of His
story!
OUR SPIRITUAL HERITAGE (20 minutes)
There is only one way to receive this gift of eternal
life. Ephesians 2:8-9 (NKJV) says it this way:
For by grace you have been saved through faith, and
that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God,
not of works, lest anyone should boast.
Some of us came to the knowledge of this saving
grace at a very early age. Some found it much later
in life. Some of us struggled to accept it while
others found it much easier. It is a very individual
decision as unique as our own life stories. And still,
through the years we have seen some identifiable
similarities in the testimonies of those who have
found the saving grace of Jesus Christ.
The first similarity is the power of prayer.
Ultimately, it is the power of prayer that brings
salvation. That moment when we confess our sins
and ask Him to forgive us and be our Savior is the
moment that salvation comes to the new believer.
But more often than not, long before we said that
prayer, there were others praying for us. Some
prayed for our protection that we would live long
enough to see the day we would utter the sinner’s
prayer. Others prayed for our brokenness so we
would humble ourselves before God. Still others
prayed for our enlightenment, that we would see
and understand His gift of salvation. Some of these
people were well known to us, grandparents,
parents, siblings, pastors, and youth leaders. Others
were silent warriors who we may never know, but
they were praying that we would know Him.
Worksheet Activity: Who prayed for you? Using
names, initials or symbols, list the people who you
knew were praying for your salvation. Ask if anyone
would share about someone from their list.
A second similarity was the shared Word. It may
have been in a single revival service, a week of
camp or a weekly Sunday School class over a long
period of time; but more than likely, someone
shared the gospel with you. They may have given
their own testimony, told a Bible story or shared a
tract, but somehow or another, they helped you see
that you were a sinner and in need of God’s
forgiveness. And while we are grateful for the great
evangelistic crusades of preachers like Billy Graham,
it is highly likely that the person who shared their
faith with you was a parent, a friend or a Sunday
School teacher.
Worksheet Activity: Who shared with you? Using
names, initials or symbols, list the people who
shared their faith with you in one form or another.
Ask if anyone would share about someone from
their list.
A third similarity was the example of a Christ-like
life. It’s one thing to give lip service to the Lord, but
another thing to live the Christian life. The world
today is not blessed to have personally seen Christ
in the flesh, but they are still hungering for His love.
And Christ’s plan is for us to be a witness…an
example… of that love. And He has empowered us
to do just that!
But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has
come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in
Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the
end of the earth." Acts 1:8 (NKJV)
Recently an actress was recognized for her portrayal
of a real life character whose life was a living

example of Christian service. In an interview she
was asked about how this role influenced her life.
Her response is a strong reminder that we must
“walk the
s
walwell
k” aas “talk the talk.”
She said,
“O
ne of my biggest questions was how
people use their faith in their religion as a banner
and then they don’t do the right thing. But they go,
‘I’m a good Christian, and I go to church, and this is
the way you should live your life.
’ …
in a live
interview we had, I said,
One of my largest
concerns stepping into this was that whole banner-
hold.
I said,
‘It scared me because I’ve had
experiences that haven’t been great. I don’t buy a
lot of people who use that as their shield,
and she
[the person she portrayed] was so open and honest
and forthright, and I said,
‘Wow, I’ve finally met
someone who practices
’ …
I no
bu
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t doesn’t preach.
have faith in those who say they represent a faith,
whereas befo
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re
o not
I
give
was
me a lect
li
ure
ke, ‘
on how to live my life when I know
I’m a pretty
decent human being. I might not go to church every
day but I know I do the right thing or try to. You’re
going to church and you’re still sleeping around on
your wife and spendin
How
g
are
everyone’s money.
you better than I am?
’ So I’
fin
v
all
e
y met people
that walk the walk and it’s made me happy, really
happy.
Worksheet Activity: Who lived Christ for you? Using
names, initials or symbols, list the people who you
respected for their walk as a Christian. Ask if anyone
would share about someone from their list.
MY316:
PRAYING, SHARING, SERVING (5 minutes)
Jesus was the ultimate example of what we have
just discussed. He prayed for us when He walked
this earth (John 17) and He still prays for us
(Hebrews 7:25). He shared the testimony of the
gospel with us in His teachings and He showed us
the gospel in His service. Now He invites us to link
our story to His and do the same, not in our power
but His.
MY316 is a tool to help us hold ourselves and each
other accountable to be like Jesus.
(Use the MY316
visual you made here and leave it up during the
emphasis.)
“MY” obviously emphasizes that this is a
personal
commitment.
OUR3
It’s
16 but M
n
Y3
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16
t
.
And while we will all rejoice in the fruit of this labor,
we are still each commanded and expected to do
our part (I Corinthians 3:13-15).
Over the next four weeks, we will look at “MY316”
from this perspective:
MY3: Who are the three people that God would
have me to pray for during the next few weeks? We
will discuss prayer, its power and purpose. We will
join with you in encouraging each other to pray for
the lost and for the opportunity for someone…
perhaps you…to share
m.
the gospel with the
MY1: Who is one person with whom God is leading
you to share your testimony? We will show you
how to share your story in a simple and powerful
way by integrating it into John 3:16.
MY6: How can I serve others? Faith without works
is dead (James 2:20) and is often more detrimental
to the sharing of the gospel than if we had said
nothing at all. Jesus commanded us to be a servant
to all. We will look at what the Bible says about
serving and will come up with creative and
innovative ways to serve others
and show Christ’s
love.
And finally we will wrap up our emphasis by giving
you some great material to share with those you
lead to the Lord to help answer their questions and
grow them in the faith.
CLOSING
Evangelism doesn’t happen by accident and it must
become personal and intentional if we are going to
win a world that is rapidly heading down the wrong
road. “MY316” is not a magic formula, but simply a
reminder that to win the world we must pray, share
and serve, and we must take it personally.
Ask for the
class’ commitment and pray for your
class as they accept this responsibility.

WEEK ONE: STORIES
Option 2
Ask for a couple of volunteers to attempt to
summarize the essence of their life story in 25
words or less. After they make their attempts, point
out that, while Jesus was a master storyteller whose
personal history transcends time, He actually
summed up the essence of His own story in 25
words. We find it in John 3:16. Read the verse or
ask if anyone can quote it. Researchers tell us that
this verse is quite possibly the most well known
piece of Holy Scripture, quoted by believers and
non-believers.
We all have unique life stories and yet, when we
examine our spiritual heritages, we often find some
common elements in the majority
of Christians’
spiritual heritages.
1) Somebody shared the story of Christ with
them.
2) Somebody prayed for them.
3)
Somebody showed them God’s love in acts
of service.
4)
And, of course, all of them “will not perish,
but have everlasting life.”
Knowing this, the Baptist General Convention of
Oklahoma has launched MY316.com, an emphasis
that calls on each of these commonalities in an
effort to encourage and train the members of our
churches to get personally involved in reaching their
lost friends and family members.
(Consider using a poster to illustrate the following
and serve as a visual reminder for the next few
weeks. A suggested layout can be found in the
Lesson 1 materials.)
MY: Take it personally. We are all commanded to be
witnesses for Him.
3: Ask God to burden you for 3 lost friends for
whom you will pray daily and focus your service.
1: Share your life story and your John 3:16
testimony with at least one of these three and
become involved in the one-on-one discipleship of a
new believer.
6: Determine 6 ways you can serve these three
people to show them practically the love of God.
MY316.com is a clever way to remember this, but it
is only a slogan if we
don’t take it personally and get
involved. Over the next 4 weeks, we will give you
some suggestions on how you can get involved. For
more information go to my316.com.

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SESSION ONE: STORIES
For God so loved the world that He gave His only
begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should
not perish but have everlasting life.
JOHN 3:16 (NKJV)
In
25 words or less…
Sum up your life’s purpose, goal or focus.

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Look it up!

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Matthew 18:11
Matthew 20:28

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Mark 2:17

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Luke 4:43
Luke 19:10
John 3:17
John 10:10
Who Prayed?
Who Shared?
Who Served?

SESSION ONE
POSTER / HANDOUT SUGGESTIONS
John 3:16 Poster
Under the section entitled
“His Story” we suggest
you make a large poster of the verse from the New
King James Version and leave it in a highly visible
place through the study. This will keep everyone
using the same wording.
You may also consider printing copies on index
cards, or distributing blank cards and having
everyone write their own copy (we learn by doing),
and encourage them to hang this on the bathroom
mirror, in the middle of their steering wheel, on
their computer screen, or wherever they would see
it on a regular basis as a memory tool and a
reminder of the MY316 emphasis.
MY316 Visual
As a visual aid for the
section entitled “My316:
Praying, Sharing, Serving” and as a reminder for the
next four weeks, make a visual that will help the
class remember the elements of MY316. Be
creative!
One suggestion would be to cut out individual
letters and numbers from colored butcher paper or
construction
paper to spell out “MY316.” On four
strips of paper, write the words personal, prayer,
share and serve. Using four different colors for the
letters and matching words would help make the
correlations clear. Hang these on the wall as they
appear on the worksheet (see at right) and then
refer to it each week.
For God so loved
the world that He gave
His only begotten Son,
that whoever believes in Him
should not perish
but have everlasting life.
John 3:16 (NKJV)

WEEK TWO: SHARE
BEFORE THE SESSION BEGINS
Copy Worksheets (1 per member).
Gather Pens or Pencils.
Read through your lesson plan and work
through the worksheet for yourself so you
can lead others through it.
Pre-enlist a member to practice doing their
personal story in 3 minutes or less and ask
them to come prepared to share it. Do the
same for your story as well (see Tying It All
Together).
Option: Copy the sample testimonies,
transitions and presentation page so class
members can read them during that part of
the session and keep them as guidelines.
OPENING (10 minutes)
Take a few minutes to open your class with some of
your usual procedures (welcome guests, call for
prayer requests or reports, announcements, etc.)
INTRODUCTION: A MESSAGE TO DELIVER
(5 minutes)
Verbal Activity: Appoint a timer as in Session 1 and
ask your class, “In
ca
3
n
0
yo
sec
u tell
onds or less,
me what was some of the best news you ever
received and how it was delivered?
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people to share. Then follow up with the story
below.
George Sweeting, in
-Guil
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t Gu
is
ide
book “The No
for Witnessing,” tells of a man by the name of John
Currier who in 1949 was found guilty of murder and
sentenced to life in prison. Later he was transferred
and paroled to work on a farm near Nashville,
Tennessee.
In 1968, Currier's sentence was terminated, and a
letter bearing the good news was sent to him. But
John never saw the letter, nor was he told anything
about it. Life on that farm was hard and without
promise for the future. Yet John kept doing what he
was told even after the farmer for whom he worked
had died.
Ten years went by. Then a state parole officer
learned about Currier's plight, found him, and told
him that his sentence had been terminated. He was
a free man.
Sweeting concluded that story by asking, "Would it
matter to you if someone sent you an important
message -- the most important in your life -- and
year after year the urgent message was never
delivered?"
(Copied from Our Daily Bread
,
November 6, 1994.)
John Currier obviously saw other people living in
freedom. They were setting an example for him on
how to live in freedom. But what he needed were
the words which would tell him HOW he could be
free, and there was only one source for that.
We who have heard the good news and
experienced freedom through Christ are responsible
to proclaim it to others still enslaved by sin. Are we
doing all we can to make sure that people get the
message?
IT’S SI
W
M
HA
PL
T I K
Y
NOW (20 minutes)
In John 9 we find one of the most powerful and
convincing testimonies given in the scriptures. It is
that of a man, blind from birth, who Jesus healed
with a divine mud pack. After his healing, this
unschooled, baby believer was called before the
religious leaders of the day to give an account of his
healing, which he gave willingly and excitedly.
As usual, the religious leaders were attempting to
accuse Jesus of wrong-doing so they could label Him
a sinner. The formerly blind man heard these
accusations and when pressed a second time for his
take on what had happened he said,
"Whether He is a sinner or not I do not know. One
thing I know: that though I was blind, now I see."
John 9:25 (NKJV)

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b
of
o
a strong testimony, simply
telling what you KNOW to be true and saying it
because you believe it!
A famous Bible teacher was once asked, “What is
the greatest thought you ever had?” His answer
was: “Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells
me so.” When
KNOW
w
wha
e
t the Bible tells us
and we couple it with what we KNOW has
happened to us, sharing our faith testimony
becomes much easier.
Joe Friday of Dragnet fame used to challenge his
witnesses to be succinct with his famous line, “Just
the factsju
, mst
a’amth, e facts.” That’s what
people need to hear from us…the facts that we
believe. And what are the facts?
1) The Facts of Your Story
Worksheet Activity: On the worksheet ask the class
to write down a few factual statements about their
experiences of finding Jesus. You can lead them
through it with the following three comments to
keep them on pace.
In a couple of sentences, write down what your life
was like before you knew Christ. Be honest without
a lot of details. If you were saved very young, it
may have been the typical life of a small-town kid. If
you came from a bad situation, it may have been a
life filled with emptiness and heartache. Whatever
the case, sum it up in a sentence or two.
Then, in 3-
4 sentences, describe the “who, when
and where
how
yo
o
u
f
met Jesus. You may find
yourself in a conversation where you can be
detailed, but if you had to very quickly tell someone
when it was and where you were when someone
shared the gospel with you that caused you to
realize your need for God, what would you say?
Now, in a couple of sentences, using terms that you
would use normally, what would you say it is like
having Jesus in your heart?
There, you’ve made Joe Friday proud!
2) The Facts of His Story
But our story, apart from His story, is really
powerless to save. There are some important facts
we need to know from the scriptures that must be
shared as well.
Worksheet Activity: On the worksheet ask the class
to write down the factual statements found in these
scriptures. Ask for volunteers to look up a scripture
and give their answer. Suggested responses are
below.
I John 4:7-8: God loves not because He is loving, but
because He IS love.
I John 2:2 / 2 Peter 3
on
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ly
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go
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od
God doesn’t love
people, He loves the whole world-good and bad.
Romans 5:8 / Isaiah 53:5: God showed His love by
sending His Son to die for our sins.
Romans 10:9-10: Believing is an internal knowledge
proved by an external action.
John 10:10 / I John 5:12: If we believe in the Son,
we will have the abundant and eternal life God
promised.
Note that these facts are repeated throughout the
Scriptures in numerous places and in a variety of
circumstances. But also note that they can all be
summed up in that one 25 word statement.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only
begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should
not perish but have everlasting life.
JOHN 3:16 (NKJV)
TYING IT ALL TOGETHER (15 minutes)
Sharing your testimony effectively means weaving
your story and His story together so that others can
see that Jesus is relevant to you and how you live. It
also means sharing it with confidence. This doesn’t
mean memorizing it as a canned speech, but it does
mean knowing the facts so well that they are
second nature, and being prepared so that you will
not be tripped up by minor distractions.
1) Begin By Telling Your Own Story
Learn to share your story in 3 minutes or less. Here
are a couple of samples of different types of
testimonies. Notice they contain clear facts without
too many distracting details.
Sample #1:
You know, when I was a little kid, life
was pretty simple and uncomplicated because I
didn’t know much. But the older I got, the more I
began to realize that there were some pretty big

challenges in life and I knew I wasn’t really prepared
to handle them very well. I knew something was
missing in my life. Then when I was at summer
camp, a guy was sharing with us about living
without fear, having confidence, having a full life. I
knew that’s what I wanted so I asked one of my
counselors how I could know that feeling. They
shared with me about how Jesus came to give us
that kind of life and that how believing in Him and
following His ways would bring that kind of peace. I
asked Jesus to forgive me of my sins and to help me
change and the difference was immediately evident.
I have found a real peace in knowing that He is
guiding my life. I don’t have all of the answers to
life, but I know Who does and that gives me great
comfort.
Sample #2:
For a lot of years I was kind of a mess. I
didn’t know wha
, so
t
I tr
I
ied
wan
a little
ted
of
everything, but none of it really made me happy or
gave me any real satisfaction. A couple of my co-
workers seemed to kind of have it all together, but I
think I was too envious to ask them about it.
Besides, we did
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tly ru
But one day, one of them shared with me at coffee
break how they had really struggled early in life. He
even mentioned some of the very things I was
wrestling with. I asked him how he got over it and
he told me it was when he found Jesus and
discovered that the secret to a full and meaningful
life was in knowing Him. The more he talked, the
more I knew that was what I was looking for. A
couple of days later after work I asked him how I
could know Jesus like that and, right there in the
lobby of our building, I asked Jesus to forgive me of
my sins and to help me change the way I was living.
Since then, I have had a much different outlook on
life. I find greater purpose in what I do
and I’ve even
found the strength to mend a few of the bridges I
burned before I knew Him.
Verbal activity: Share your “under 3 minute”
personal story and ask the pre-enlisted person to do
the same. Encourage class members to work this
week on preparing their own “under 3 minute” story
by writing it down and practicing it. Ask them to
bring them with them next week. (See MY 316
Homework page.)
2) Transition to His Story
Folks often get hung up on trying to move from
their contemporary story to the historical story of
the Bible. Havingl a statfewe“mtranents”
sitiona
can make this so much easier. Find a couple that fit
you and commit them to memory. Here are a few
samples:
Sample #1:
You know, the longer I know the love of
Jesus, the more I understand the things He said. Like
when He said, “
loved
For
the
God
…”
Do yo
so
u
realize what that means?
Sample #2:
One of the things my friend said to me
that really stuck with me was actually something
Jesus said. He said, “For God so loved the world…”
That pretty well sums up the whole thing doesn’t it?
Sample #3:
Back when I was a kid I learned
something I didn’t understand until I found Jesus.
You may have learned it, too. Jesus said it actually.
H
e said, “For God so loved the world…” Have you
ever thought about all that’s included in that one
statement?
3) Tell His Story
There is no rule that says you have to use a tract or
Bible when witnessing; in fact you may find yourself
in situations where that is impossible. But, if you
have the MY316 tract which has the verse printed
on it or a pocket New Testament you can simply say
something like, “I carry that verse with me in my
heart and my
Som
p
e
o
p
cke
eople
t.”
are visual
learners and this may help them, plus you can leave
the tract with them. Once you get to the verse, you
can use it phrase by phrase to share the story of
salvation. Personalize it your own way, but here is a
sample of how to use John 3:16 to share.
Sample:
It says, “For God so loved…” You know I
never knew how much God loved me until I let my
guard down and opened my heart to let Him love
me.
But the cool part is, He doesn’t just love me, He
loves you, too. In fact
the
it says that “God so loved
world
.” Not just church people, not just preachers or
missionar
whol
ies…b
e world
u
.
t
He
the
loves us even
when we are not being good. And He showed that
because it says He so loved us “that He gave His
only begotten
Son.” “Gave” is a short word that
sums up a lot. When you read the whole story you’ll
learn that He gave Him to be mocked, beaten, and
crucified for our sins. The Bible says that even while
we were sinning, He loved us enough to let that
happen. And then
He says,
That whoeve
r believes
in Him.
That means whoever truly believes He loves
us that much. It means that we know and believe
Christ really died for us and that He rose from the

grave to be our Lord and Savior. To believe He is
Lord means to turn away from our sin and the
things that defeat us and trust Jesus to save us from
our sin. And then comes the coolest part of all,
“should not perish but have eternal life.” We don’t
deserve His love at all, but for those who believe, He
wants to give it to you now and forever. We get to
live with Him and experience His love forever.
Following John 3:16 as an outline does several
things for us.
It keeps our presentation biblical
It keeps it familiar
It invokes the power of the Word
It keeps us efficiently on task
It leads to a logical conclusion
It will take practice, but the payoff could be eternal
for those with whom we share.
CLOSING (10 minutes)
When the blind man of John 9 shared his story, he
also took it to the next level by extending an
invitation to his listeners. In verse 27 he asks the
Pharisees, “Do you want
s,
to become His disciple
too?” If we sha
bu
re
t nev
the
er ask o
s
ur
tory
listeners to receive Christ, we’ve missed the point.
To simply know the message is not enough; to
randomly share the message is better. But to
intentionally take our story to someone we believe
needs it and ask them to join us on this wonderful
journey with Jesus…now that has power!
During the next week you have an assignment. It is
spelled out on your
“MY316 Ho
work
m” e
sheet.
1) Write out your personal story and practice
it. Bring your finished testimony with you to
small group next week.
2) Practice sharing the story of salvation using
John 3:16 (NKJV).
3) Identify people you know who you believe
need to hear your story and His story. Then
begin to pray that God will instill in you the
burden and create opportunities for you to
share one-on-one with one or more of
these people.

WEEK TWO: SHARE
Option 2
In John 9 we find one of the most powerful and
convincing testimonies given in the scriptures. It is
that of a man, blind from birth, who Jesus healed
with a divine mud pack. After his healing, this
unschooled, baby believer was called before the
religious leaders of the day to give an account of his
healing, which he gave willingly and excitedly.
As usual, the religious leaders were attempting to
accuse Jesus of wrong-doing so they could label Him
a sinner. The formerly blind man heard these
accusations and when pressed a second time for his
take on what had happened he said,
"Whether He is a sinner or not I do not know. One
thing I know: that though I was blind, now I see."
John 9:25 (NKJV)
That’s the bottom line of a strong testimony…
simply telling what you KNOW to be true and saying
it like…rather because…you believe it!
A famous Bible teacher was once
asked, “What is
the greatest thought you ever had?” His answer
was: “Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells
me so.” When we KNOW what the Bible tells us
and we couple it with what we KNOW has
happened to us, sharing our faith testimony
becomes much easier.
Our personal story provides a wonderful opening
that engages people with the personal and practical
nature of salvation. John 3:16 provides the perfect
outline for the plan of salvation as it does several
things for us.
It keeps our presentation biblical
It keeps it familiar
It invokes the power of the Word
It keeps us efficiently on task
It leads to a logical conclusion
It will take practice, but the payoff could be eternal
for those with whom we share. Here is a sample
testimony from the MY316.com study which
illustrates how a person could share their own
story, transition to His story and share the plan of
salvation; and all in less than 10 minutes.
For a lot of years I was kind of a mess. I didn’t know
what I wanted, so I tried a little of everything, but
none of it really made me happy or gave me any
real satisfaction. A couple of my co-workers seemed
to kind of have it all together, but I think I was too
envious to ask them about it. Besides, we didn’t
exactly run in the same circles. But one day, one of
them shared with me at coffee break how they had
really struggled early in life…he even mentioned
some of the very things I was wrestling with. I
asked him how he got over it and he told me it was
when he found Jesus and discovered that the secret
to a full and meaningful life was in knowing Him.
The more he talked, the more I knew that was what
I was looking for. A couple of days later after work I
asked him how I could know Jesus like that and,
right there in the lobby of our building, I asked Jesus
to forgive me of my sins and to help me change the
way I was living. Since then, I have had a much
different outlook on life. I find greater purpose in
what I do and I’ve even found the strength to mend
a few of the bridges I burned before I knew Him.
And you know, the longer I know the love of Jesus,
the more I understand the things He said. Like when
He said, “For God so loved the world that He gave
His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him
should not perish but have ev
erlasting
well, do
life,”
you realize what that means?
It says, “For God so loved…” you know I never knew
how much God loved me until I let my guard down
and opened my heart to let Him love me. But the
cool part is, He doesn’t just love me, He loves you,
t
oo. In fact it says
the
tha
world
t
.” “God so loved
Not just church people, not just preachers or
missionaries but the whole world. He loves us even
when we are not being good. And He showed that
because it says He so loved us “that He gave His
only begotten Son
.” “Gave” is a short word that
sums up a lot. When you read the whole story you’ll
learn that He gave Him to be mocked, beaten, and
crucified for our sins. The Bible says that even while
we were sinning, He loved us enough to let that
happen. And
then He says, “That whoever believes
in Him.” That means whoever truly believes He loves
us that much. It means that we know and believe
Christ really died for us and that He rose from the
grave to be our Lord and Savior. To believe He is

Lord means to turn away from our sin and the
things that defeat us, and trust Jesus to save us
from our sin. And then comes the coolest part of all,
“should not perish but have eternal life.” We don’t
deserve His love at all, but for those who believe, He
wants to give it to you now and forever. We get to
live with Him and experience His love forever.
MY316.com can help you become a powerful
witness for Christ as it teaches you to share your
faith efficiently and effectively.

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SESSION TWO: SHARE
Before Christ…
Write 2-3 sentences which describe what your life was
like before you asked Christ into your heart.
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_________________________________
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Finding Christ…
Write 3-4 sentences which tell the who, when and where
of how you asked Christ into your heart.
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
After Christ
Write 2-3 sentences which describe what it is like now to
have Christ in your heart.
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
_________________________________
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Look it up!
What facts do these verses tell us
about God’s love for
the world and His plan for redeeming man?

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I John 4:7-8
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I John 2:2 / 2 Peter 3:9
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Romans 5:8 / Isaiah 53:5

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Romans 10:9-10

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John 10:10 / I John 5:12

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MY316 HOMEWORK
1) On scratch paper, write out your personal story of your life before Christ, your experience finding Christ and
your life after accepting Christ. Refine it and practice saying it several times. Once you have it where you can share
it in under 3 minutes, write it in the space below. Then consider bringing it with you to class next week to share
with the group.
2) Practice
sharing Jesus’ story using John 3:16 as your basic outline.
3) On a note card, write the initials, names, or make a symbol indicating those close to you who you believe need
to hear your story and the story of Je
in a
s
place
us
(s)
w
lo
here
v
yo
e
u wil
for
l see it
them. Post or carry this list

regularly and be reminded to pray that God will create a burden and an opportunity to share one-on-one with at
least one of these people.
FINAL NOTE: It may be that this assignment presents a dilemma for you because you are still on the road to finding
Christ in your life. If this is the case, please consider the verses you read and discussed in your small group. Think
of the personal stories you heard. Realize that God does have a wonderful plan for your life. Invite Him into your
heart now. If you need help doing this, call your small group leader or a Christian friend, they would love to share
in this experience with you.
SAMPLE TESTIMONIES, TRANSITIONS & PRESENTATION
PERSONAL STORIES
Sample #1:
You know, when
I was a little kid, life was pretty simple and uncomplicated because I didn’t
know much. But the older I got, the more I began to realize that there were some pretty big challenges
in life and I knew I wasn’t really
ew
pr
some
epa
thing
r
wa
ed
s miss
t
in
o
g in
h
my
andle them very well. I kn
life. Then when I was at summer camp, a guy was sharing with us about living without fear…having
confidence…having a full life. I knew that’s what I wanted so I asked one of my counselors how I could
know that feeling. They shared with me about how Jesus came to give us that kind of life and that how
believing in Him and following His ways would bring that kind of peace. I asked Jesus to forgive me of
my sins and help me change and the difference was immediately evident. I have found a real peace in
knowing that He is guiding my life. I don’t have all of the answers to life, but I know Who does and that
gives me great comfort.
Sample #2:
For a lot of years I was kind of a mess.
le
I
of
didn’t know what I wanted, so I tried a litt
everything, but none of it really made me happy or gave me any real satisfaction. A couple of my co-
workers seemed to kind of have it all together, but I think I was too envious to ask them about it.
Besides, we didn’t exa
e
ctlyru
s. But one day, on
n
e
in
of the
the
m share
s
d w
a
ith
m
m
e
e at
circl
coffee
break how they had really struggled early in life…he even mentioned some of the very things I was
wrestling with. I asked him how he got over it and he told me it was when he found Jesus and discovered
that the secret to a full and meaningful life was in knowing Him. The more he talked, the more I knew
that was what I was looking for. A couple of days later after work I asked him how I could know Jesus like
that and, right there in the lobby of our building I asked Jesus to forgive me of my sins and help me
change the way I was living. Since then, I have had a much different outlook on life, I find greater
purpose in what I do, and I’ve even found the s
re
t
I
rength to mend a few of the bridges I burned befo
knew Him.
TRANSITIONS
Sample #1:
You know, the longer I know the love of Jesus, the more I understand the things He said. Like
when He said, “For God so loved the …” Do you realize what that means?
Sample #2:
One of the things my friend said to me that really stuck with me was actually something Jesus
said. He said, “For God so loved the world…” That pretty well sums up the whole thing doesn’t it?
Sample #3:
Back when I was kid I lear
rst
n
an
ed
d until
so
I fo
met
und Jesus.
hin
You
g
may
I didn’t unde
have learned it, too. Jesus said it actually. He said, “For God so loved the world…” Have you ever thought
about all that’s included in that one statement?

GOSPEL PRESENTATION USING JOHN 3:16
It says, “For God
You kno
s
w
o
I ne
loved
ver knew how
…”
much God loved me until I let my guard down
and opened my heart to let Him love me. But the cool part is, He doesn’t just love me, He loves you, too.
In fact it says
the
th
wor
a
ld
t .”“NoGod
t ju
soslt oved
church
prea
peop
chers or
le, not just
missionar
whol
ies…b
e world
u
.
t
He
the
loves us even when we are not being good. And He showed that
because it says He so loved us “that He gave His one and only Son.” “Gave” is a short word that sums up
a lot. When you read the whole story y
ou’ll learn that He gave Him to be mocked, beaten, and crucified
for our sins. The Bible says that even while we were sinning, He loved us enough to let that happen. And
then He says, “That whoever believes in
ove
Hi
s
m.”
us tha
Tha
t much
t
.
means whoever truly believes He l
It means that we know and believe Christ really died for us and that that He rose from the grave to be
our Lord and Savior. To believe He is Lord means to turn away from our sin and the things that defeat us
and trust Jesus to save us fr
om our sin. And then comes the coolest part of all, “should not perish but
have eternal life.” We don’t deserve His love at all, but for those who believe, He wants to give it to you
now and forever. We will live with Him and His love forever.

WEEK THREE: PRAY
BEFORE THE SESSION BEGINS
Copy Worksheets (1 per member).
Gather Pens or Pencils.
Gather index cards or half sheets of typing
paper for the worksheet activity.
Read through your lesson plan and work
through the worksheet for yourself so you
can lead others through it.
Optional: If you do not have copies of the
MY316 tract available, consider printing the
“model sinner’s prayer” on index cards so
class members can have a copy. You will
find this in the
CLOSING
section.
OPENING (10 minutes)
Take a few minutes to open your class with your
usual procedures (welcome guests, call for prayer
requests / reports, announcements, etc.)
INTRODUCTION:
STANDING IN THE NEED (5 minutes)
The old spiritual states
, “It’s me, O Lord, standing in
the need of prayer,” and, most certainly, we all
need prayer for daily strength. Additionally, there
are times when we need the power of prayer for
extraordinarily challenging times. But could it be
that we
have emphasized the “me” to the exclusion
of others? One Christian research group’s findings
would suggest so. They stated that five years ago
the number one request coming into their prayer
lines across America was: pray for my lost family
and loved ones that they do not go to hell! It is
number eight today. It has been replaced by
number one: pray for my physical body, and
number two: pray for my financial prosperity.
Often when we practice intercessory prayer in our
small groups at church, we shift th
e “me” to the
“we” as we pray for our fellow Christians who are
struggling with health issues, employment problems
or other family crises. And while we are
commanded to do this, pray for our brothers and
sisters,
the time we spend on “me” and “we” often
pr
ecludes us prayin
the lost.
g
The
fo
lat
r
e
“them”,
Adrian Rogers said, "We spend more time praying
for the saved who are sick than for the unsaved
who are lost, more time trying to keep the saints
out of Heaven than the lost out of Hell."
To pray for the lost is a prime directive for
Christians, and it comes with a promise. James 5:16
tells us that the “fervent prayer of a righteous man
avails
Go
m
d
u
has
ch.
called
us to stand in the gap
for those who are lost. Charles Spurgeon, once
said, "If sinners
perish, let them perish with our
arms around their knees. Let no one go [to Hell]
unwarned and unprayed for."
MEANINGFUL SPECIFICS (15 minutes)
Zig Ziglar, in speaking of the road to success, stated,
You cannot make it as a wandering generality. You
must become a meaningful specific.
” This could be
equally applied to success in sharing our faith and
to the prayer involved in that effort. General prayer
“for the lost of thothe
se wowhrlodd
” oann’d
t
know the Lord is not powerless, but it is rarely
effectual in OUR liv
-ers.
es…the lives of the pray
When we become “meaningfully specific” in our
prayer life, it increases the fervency of our prayers.
Evangelistic prayer concerns which have names,
faces, families, relationships, etc. punctuate the
urgency of the need for salvation. Reflecting on the
earlier Spurgeon quote, we would most likely not
lock our arms around the knees of a stranger who
might be headed in the wrong direction. But we
would readily entangle that loved one who is about
to step into the path of certain death. We must
learn to love and care more about mankind in
general, but there is no better or easier place to
initiate that love than in the lives of those we know
best.
Worksheet Activity: Lead your class through this
exercise, taking time to truly ponder the listings.
Using the three categories, ask the class to list those
they know well who need a personal relationship
with Jesus. They can keep this list as a prayer
reminder. Then pass out index cards or half sheets
of typing paper and ask the group to record their list
again and post these on a wall in the classroom as a
weekly prayer reminder.
If they prefer to be

discrete, tell them to use initials, first names only, or
even a symbol. You will refer to this list again next
week, but this could easily become a permanent list
to which you can not only add names, but highlight
those who come to know the Lord. Call attention to
the “FOCUS” instructions as well.
WE ARE THE ANSWER (20 minutes)
Ask for a volunteer to read Luke 10:2.
Depending on the translation you use, Jesus says
the fields are white unto harvest, the harvest is
plentiful, or the harvest is truly great.
Ask: What is the harvest to which He is referring?
Obviously it is the souls of men and women, boys
and girls who need to know the Lord. In John 4:35,
Jesus repeats this thought, but He is a little more
emphatic when He says, “Open your eyes and see
the harvest.” In other words, the harvest is right
outside your door…you can see it!
Call attention to the names on the wall that have
just been posted and/or those on their prayer lists.
This is our harvest. And now comes the important
part. Notice that Jesus did not say, “The workers
are few, so pray that God will intervene and harvest
the field for us.” No, He said, “Pray that the Lord of
the harvest
will send out workers into His field.”
He’s lo
o
o
r a
kin
crew o
g
f h
f
arvesters and that crew
is us!
And our tools are not combines and
threshers, but, as Revelation 12:11 implies, our
tenacious testimony.
That’s why when
our
w
lo
e
st fri
p
end
ray
s and
for
family, we should expect that we may very well be
the method God uses to answer our prayers and we
must be prepared to share.
Refer to last week’s h
Be
omework assignment.
prepared to share your 3 minute testimony and ask
if anyone else would share what they have written.
When each person has shared, ask them to post
their testimony by their prayer lists. Encourage them
to not only pray for the people on their lists, but to
be willing and open to share their story with these
people as God gives the opportunities. Encourage
others, whether they read their testimony or not, to
post their stories now or next week if they still need
to finish writing them out.
CLOSING (10 minutes)
As we contemplate the role of prayer in evangelism,
there are two sides to this coin. One is the prayer
we pray for those that God has placed on our heart.
We should pray without ceasing that our lost
friends and family would come to know the saving
grace of our Lord. Sometimes we might have a hard
time knowing how to voice that prayer. If you need
help, Paul summed it up nicely.
Ask for a volunteer to read Colossians 1:9-14.
But there is another prayer of vital importance.
That is the prayer by the lost for their salvation. As
much as we might
“will
it
for them, salvation is still
a personal matter requiring the confession and
profession of each individual. Often times they will
have difficulty knowing how to voice that prayer.
That’s where your assistance is vital. While we
know that there are
o
n
r
o “magic words
incantat
in
io
voke
n
salvat
s”
i
to
on, it is important
that those praying understand exactly what they
are committing to the Lord and what they are
asking Him to do. Knowing a “model sinner’s
prayer” can be very helpful. The “MY316” tract has
a good example that you could use:
God, thank You for loving me. I believe Jesus came
to show your love, to die on the cross for my sin, and
was raised from the dead. I trust Jesus as my Lord
and Savior. I commit my life completely to You.
Thank you for your forgiveness and free gift of
eternal life.
Remind your class of the following:
1) If
they haven’t already done so, encourage
them to write out their personal story and
practice it. Encourage them to bring their
finished testimonies to small group next
week and post it with the others.
2) Continue practicing their plan of salvation
presentation using John 3:16 (NKJV).
3) Encourage them to ask God this week to
help them focus in on three specific people
from their prayer list and ask Him to send
laborers into the field to witness to them.
Ask Him specifically for the opportunity to
share one-on-one with one of these people
and begin preparing and watching for that
opportunity.

WEEK THREE: PRAY
Option 2
The old spiritual states, “It’s me, O Lord, standing in
the need of prayer,” and, most certainly, we all
need prayer for daily strength. Additionally, there
are times when we need the power of prayer for
extraordinarily challenging times. But could it be
that we have emphasized the “me” to the exclusion
of others? One Christian research group’s findings
would suggest so. They stated that five years ago
the number one request coming into their prayer
lines across America was: pray for my lost family
and loved ones that they do not go to hell! It is
number eight today. It has been replaced by
number one: pray for my physical body, and
number two: pray for my financial prosperity.
Often when we practice intercessory prayer in our
small groups at church, we shift the “me” to the
“we” as we pray for our fellow Christians who are
struggling with health issues, employment problems
or other family crises. And while we are
commanded to pray for our brothers and sisters,
the time we spend on “me” and “we” often
precludes us prayin
the lost. The
g fo
late
r “them,”
Adrian Rogers said, "We spend more time praying
for the saved who are sick than for the unsaved
who are lost, more time trying to keep the saints
out of Heaven than the lost out of Hell."
To pray for the lost is a prime directive for
Christians, and it comes with a promise. James 5:16
tells us that the
a rig
“fer
hteous
v
man
ent prayer of
avails much.” God has called us to stand in the gap
for those who are lost. Charles Spurgeon, once
said, "If sinners perish, let them perish with our
arms around their knees. Let no one go [to Hell]
unwarned and unprayed for."
Zig Ziglar, in speaking of the road to success, stated,
You cannot make it as a wandering generality. You
must become a meaningful specific.
” This could be
equally applied to success in sharing our faith and
to the prayer involved in that effort. General prayer
“for the lost of the world” and “those” who don’t
know the Lord is not powerless, but it is rarely
effectual in OUR lives, the lives of the pray-ers.
W
hen we become “meaningfully specific” in our
prayer life, it increases the fervency of our prayers.
Evangelistic prayer concerns which have names,
faces, families, relationships, etc. punctuate the
urgency of the need for salvation. Reflecting on the
earlier Spurgeon quote, we would most likely not
lock our arms around the knees of a stranger who
might be headed in the wrong direction. But we
would readily entangle that loved one who is about
to step into the path of certain death. We must
learn to love and care more about mankind in
general, but there is no better or easier place to
initiate that love than in the lives of those we know
best.
MY316 calls on us to get meaningfully specific by
asking God to burden us for 3 specific people who
we will focus our prayer life on until the day that
they pray to receive Christ in their hearts.
As we contemplate the role of prayer in evangelism,
there are two sides to this coin. One is the prayer
we pray for those that God has placed on our heart.
We should pray without ceasing that our lost
friends and family would come to know the saving
grace of our Lord. Sometimes we might have a hard
time knowing how to voice that prayer. If you need
help, Paul summed it up nicely.
Ask for a volunteer
to read Colossians 1:9-14.
But there is another prayer of vital importance.
That is the prayer by the lost for their salvation. As
much as we might “will it” for them, salvation is still
a personal matter requiring the confession and
profession of each individual. Often times they will
have difficulty knowing how to voice that prayer.
That’s where your assistance is vital. While we
know that there are no “magic words or
incantations” to invoke salvation, it is important
that those praying understand exactly what they
are committing to the Lord and what they are
asking Him to do. Knowing a “model sinner’s
pr
ayer” can be ver
MY
y
316
h
tr
elp
act has
fu
a
l. The
good example that you could use.
How is your evangelistic prayer life? Are you fervent
and focused in your prayers or are you a wandering
generality? MY316 can help.

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SESSION THREE: PRAY
Do you have co-workers or business acquaintances, immediate or extended family members, or friends
and neighbors that need a personal relationship with Christ? List them below. Use first names only or
initials if you need to be discrete. Keep this list in your Bible or post it where you will be reminded to
pray for them.
Work
Family
Friends
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
As you pray for those you have listed, ask God to begin to lead
you to three of these people on whom He would have you fervently focus your service and your prayer
life.
1._________________________ 2. _________________________ 3. _________________________

WEEK FOUR: SERVE
BEFORE THE SESSION BEGINS
Copy Worksheets (1 per member).
Copy the Sample Scenarios sheet for the
Worksheet activity.
Gather Pens or Pencils.
Read through your lesson plan and work
through the worksheet for yourself so you
can lead others through it.
OPENING (10 minutes)
Take a few minutes to open your class with your
usual procedures (welcome guests, call for prayer
requests / reports, announcements, etc.)
INTRODUCTION: CHARISMA (10 minutes)
Charisma! It’s
aring
that
quality that
end
draws
e
people: a winsome attitude, a magnetic personality,
that certain something that just makes people want
to be around you.
Jesus had it. He got 12 men to drop everything and
follow Him. In three years He developed a following
that created a stir that rattled in the halls of the
highest government offices. And look at who He
was attracting:
Infamous tax collector Zaccheus and the
pious, respected Nicodemus
Godly Mary of Bethany and the shameful
Samaritan woman
Struggling cripples and strong
Roman
centurions
Children and the aged
Impetuous Peter and the cautious Thomas
White collar Matthew and blue collar James
and John
Even those that hated Him, like the scribes and
Pharisees, cou
An
ld
d wh
n’t
y should
sta
we
y away.
be surprised? Didn’t He say, “If I be lifted up I will
draw all men to me.”?
And what was the source of this wonderful
charisma? The answer is in the word itself.
“Charisma” comes from the same Greek word
“charis” that we“grace.”tran
Like m
slat
oths to
e as
a flame, people of all ages and from all walks of life
were drawn to the grace of God being lived out in
the life of this common, Nazarite carpenter.
Whether He was rebuking the religious zealots or
pardoning an adulterous woman, whether He was
responding to an admiring throng or enduring the
scoffing of an angry crowd, in times of tender
exchange or riotous assault, His grace was
consistent. Never had they seen anyone who lived
with such genuine grace!
Likewise, the hallmark of the early church was an
uncommon grace (Acts 2:42-47). The sacrificial way
that they ministered to one another, the warm
fellowship in ea
, their
ch
stro
o
n
ther’s
g unity
homes
of spirit and the depth of their praise, these were all
evidences that something different was happening
in th
is new group call
” or ed“Ch
“Christ
ristians
followers”(Ac
. An
ts.
d the p
11
eo
:
p
2
le
6
like
)
d it!
Acts 2:47 says their number grew
daily
because
they, the church,
had found “favor with all the
people.”
Isn’t it am
ofte
az
n shr
in
ink
g
b
?
ack
W
fro
e
m sharing
the gospel of grace for fear we will offend someone,
when the Bible tells us that true grace has just the
opposite effect. What is offensive is not gracious
living, but inconsistent, half-hearted living. O.S.
Hawkins hit the nail on the head when he said,
"Real Christianity is lovely. There is a quality about a
Spirit-filled, radiant Christian that draws and
attracts others and causes them to enjoy favor with
all the people. The truth is that the gospel is not
nearly as offensive as some of its proponents!"
GRACE IS A VERB (30 minutes)
Grace was such a powerful evangelistic force in the
early church because it had become an action verb
rather than just a state of being. True, the early
church understood they were living IN grace, but
they were also living OUT grace as an action. They
were literally “gracin
service
g
.
” people with their
Their grace filled lives were blessing those around
them and thus, lifting up Jesus. They were the
embodiment of Matthew 5:13-16,

"You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its
flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for
nothing but to be thrown out and trampled
underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A
city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do
they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a
lamp stand, and it gives light to all who are in the
house. Let your light so shine before men, that they
may see your good works and glorify your Father in
heaven.
True grace-filled living will ignite the fires of
evangelism in two ways. First of all, it earns us the
right to be heard. As the old saying goes, “People
don’t care how much you know until they know
how much you care.” And believe me, people are
watching and evaluating. Certainly people recognize
when we have been gracious to them personally,
but they also notice how we treat others. If we are
inconsistent in our daily walk people begin to
wonder if they were being loved or just
“schmoozed.”
But I say to you that for every idle word men may
speak, they will give account of it in the day of
judgment. Matthew 12:36 (NKJV)
Wow! What a sobering thought! Every idle word!
And certainly every idle deed would be implied
there as w
ell. But here’s
ood news:
some g
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings
of silver. Proverbs 25:11 (NKJV)
Our words, and actions, can not only be a stumbling
block, but they can also be a blessing to those with
whom we come in contact.
Worksheet Activity: Ask the members to break into
smaller groups of 3-4 and choose one of the events
or places in the list on the left. After reading the list
of
“How gra
am
ci
I
?ou” qs
uestions, ask them to list
some specific
“grace living” actions they could
employ regularly in their chosen place or activity.
After a couple of minutes give them the sample
scenarios sheet and see if this encourages some
additional ideas. Emphasize that grace living is not
always a grandiose act of service, but is often
expressed in the subtle but powerful things we do
and the character we show. After a few minutes
return to the larger group and ask the groups to
share their responses.
Now, ask your class to look at their prayer lists. Say:
As you have prayed over the past week has God
brought three of these people into sharper focus?
As you have thought today about grace living
toward others, have three of these been coming to
mind more often than others? If so, circle those
names on your lists and begin focusing on how you
can show grace to these three.
Ask your class to look at their worksheets and
record those names and some specific actions of
grace they can perform that would open a door for
them or another Christian to point their friend or
family member to Jesus. Remind them that
evangelism won’t happen because we talk about it,
but rather because we become intentional about it.
How we live in public is a vital part of our
testimony. But
it’s only
rue
a
gracious
part.
living
T
is more than just being kind and considerate. True
gracious living ignites the fires of evangelism when
it points people to Jesus. In our daily living do we
give God glory? Is it evident to those around us that
our happiness or contentment is because of Him? Is
our speech peppered with references to His will and
His blessings in our life? As “salt of the earth” do
we make people thirsty for the grace of God or do
we just hope they like us and admire our kindness?
Jesus didn’t say, “If y
peo
o
p
u
le
are kind and good,
will get saved.
I be
lifte
H
d
e
up
said
I will draw
, “If
all men to me,
John 12:32. For our grace living to
ignite the fires of evangelism, it must be about Him,
not us. Only the Spirit can draw men to God and
only the name of Jesus can bring salvation. But
what a blessing we have to be the vehicles that
carry that message to a world that needs His grace!
And what’s more, He promises to bless us when we
live in grace toward one another.
Finally, all of you be of one mind, having
compassion for one another; love as brothers, be
tenderhearted, be courteous; not returning evil for
evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary
blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that
you may inherit a blessing. 1 Peter 3:8-9 (NKJV)
CLOSING (5 minutes)
There it is! In 4 weeks we have helped you to define
your MY316. You have 3 people to pray for; you are
ready and looking for that opportunity to share with
1
(if you haven’t
and you
alr
have
e
6 way
ad
s
y
to
!)
serve those for whom you are praying. And you

know how to weave your story with His story to
make it personal. Next week we will wrap up by
showing you how to enhance that new relationship
that will be created when you successfully
introduce your friends and family to Jesus Christ.

WEEK FOUR:
SERVE
Option 2
Charisma! It’s
aring
that
quality that
end
draws
e
people, a winsome attitude, a magnetic personality,
that certain something that just makes people want
to be around you.
Jesus had it. He got 12 men to drop everything and
follow Him. In three years He developed a following
that created a stir that rattled in the halls of the
highest government offices. He attracted the rich
and poor, famous and infamous, the sick, the
powerful, the oppressed and the influential. Even
those that hated Him, like the scribes and Pharisees,
couldn’t stay away.
And what was the source of this wonderful
charisma? The answer is in the word itself.
“Charisma” comes from the same Greek word
“charis” that we translate as “grace.” Like moths to
a flame, people of all ages and from all walks of life
were drawn to the grace of God being lived out in
the life of this common, Nazarite carpenter. Never
had they seen anyone who lived with such genuine
grace!
Likewise, the hallmark of the early church was an
uncommon grace (Acts 2:42-47). The sacrificial way
that they ministered to one another, the warm
f
ellowship in ea
their
ch
s
o
tro
ther’s
ng unity
homes,
of spirit and the depth of their praise, these were all
evidences that something different was happening
in this new group called “Christians” or “Christ
followers
”(Ac
1
ts
1:26). And the people liked it! Acts
2:47 says their number grew
daily
because they, the
church, had found “fav.” or with all the people
Isn’t it amazing? We often shrink back from sharing
the gospel of grace for fear we will offend someone,
when the Bible tells us that true grace has just the
opposite effect. What is offensive is not gracious
living, but inconsistent, half-hearted living. O.S.
Hawkins hit the nail on the head when he said,
"Real Christianity is lovely. There is a quality about a
Spirit-filled, radiant Christian that draws and
attracts others and causes them to enjoy favor with
all the people. The truth is that the gospel is not
nearly as offensive as some of its proponents!"
Grace was such a powerful evangelistic force in the
early church because it had become an action verb
rather than just a state of being. True, the early
church understood they were living IN grace, but
they were also living OUT grace as an action. They
were literally “gracing” people with their service.
Their grace filled lives were blessing those around
them and thus, lifting up Jesus. They were the
embodiment of Matthew 5:13-16,
"You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its
flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for
nothing but to be thrown out and trampled
underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A
city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do
they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a
lamp stand, and it gives light to all who are in the
house. Let your light so shine before men, that they
may see your good works and glorify your Father in
heaven.”
True grace-filled living will ignite the fires of
evangelism. First of all, it earns us the right to be
heard. As the old saying goes, “People don’t care
how much you know until they know how much you
care.” But it’s only a part. True gracious living is
more than just being kind and considerate. True
gracious living ignites the fires of evangelism when
it points people to Jesus. In our daily living do we
give God glory? Is it evident to those around us that
our happiness or contentment is because of Him? Is
our speech peppered with references to His will and
His blessings in our hli” dfeo ? As “salt of the eart
we make people thirsty for the grace of God or do
we just hope they like us and admire our kindness?
MY316 focuses on showing us how to honestly and
consistently serve people in such a way that it fuels
the fires of evangelism. Look around you for ways to
live graciously in your everyday life. Do you “grace”
others by the way you live? (Note: The MY316
download includes a sample sheet of Grace Living
scenarios you can use if time allows.)

WEEK 4: SAMPLE SCENARIOS FOR DAILY
GRACE LIVING
Shopping:
Look around you. On one of your 5 weekly trips to
the local WalMart you notice the young female
checker that often waits on you has been moved to
the seated position by the exit door, no doubt
because
mo
she
re th
’s
an 50% through her
pregnancy. You remember those days and how you
felt.
Have you ever ask
s
ed
feeling
h
?
er how she’
Have you asked if she knows
if it’s a
o
b
r if
oy or girl
she
’s
decided on a name? You noticed that she has
that expectant mother glow and is really trying hard
to look nice in spite of the weight gain. You noticed,
but did you tell her how nice she looks? Wouldn’t
she be blessed if one day, after you have
established that you are really interested in her and
her child, you dropped off a little inexpensive baby
gift or a $10 gift card with a little note of
encouragement? And after all that,
I don’t think she
would be offended if you asked, “Have you got a
good church home for that new baby when it gets
here? If not, may I invite you to min
e?”
Eating Out:
Look around you. You’ve eaten at this local
restaurant pretty regularly for several years now.
That one waitress, the middle aged red-headed lady
that calls everseyemons e she’s
“Honeyb,”een
there forever. You don
then
’t know her name, but,
again, you’ve
Sh
n
e
ev
knows
er
you
as
go to
ke
the
d.
Baptist church, though, because she asked you
about the “Halloween thingy” you were having.
Wonder if she has kids or grandkids that were
interested? Did you ask? Maybe you could make it
a point to eat there tomorrow and bring her a flyer
about the “Halloween thingy.” That way she’d know
you were really listening to her, and so would the
people in the next booth that are eavesdropping on
your conversation. Restaurants are like that. When
you find out
her name and that she’s helping raise
her three grandkids, ask her if you could drop by
and visit her daughter some time and invite them to
church. She probably won’t mind if you take an
interest in her family.
You might get more
information than you barg
ained for, but that’s okay.
When she brings your food, ask Bea (that’s her
name, by the way), if you could include a prayer for
her and her grandkids when you say grace. Oh, and
look around you…there aren’t many Mercedes in
the employee parking lot so leave a good tip.
My Workplace:
Look around you. Seems the workforce at the office
is getting younger everyday…couldn’t be that you’re
just getting older.
These “kids”
the
sit
break
around
room talking
about “twittering and tweeting and
facebookin
ght as
g
we
.”
ll
M
be
i
speaking Greek!
They can carry on an “electronic friendship” half
way around the globe in milliseconds, but
can’t get
to work on time because they seem helpless to do
anything practical like rotate their tires or winterize
their cars before the first major freeze. You could
show them how, but people their age
don’t want to
listen to people your age.
The company just made you get a new smart phone
and, frankly, you can’t understand the manual (or at
least
re
suryoue ’ you wou
un
ld
derst
n
oo
’t
d it i
h
f
ave
you had taken the time to read it.) The boss just
called and said he’ll shoot you a file this weekend
and also suggested the new mileage app could
really make your expense reports easier to keep.
He speaks Greek, too.
You decide to put l
ast week’s Sunday School lesson
to the test. “…before honor is humility” Prov. 18:12.
So you humble yourself and ask twenty-something
Tyler if he could show you a couple of things on
your new smart phone. During the next few days of
break room tutoring sessions, his conversation
regularly sh
ifts to your “sweet ride.” That’s his term
for the fact that your 20 year old truck still looks
and runs great. Tomorrow you’re going to show
him how to make his 5 year old import start in the
cold weather.
enl
Then
ighten him
y
o
o
n
u
the
’ll
concept of regular car maintenance, and after that
you plan to
introduce him to your church’s young
adult director. Sweet!
The Neighborhood:
Look around you. Seems like every other month
there is a moving van somewhere in the
neighborhood. This little corner of the world is
growing. Where are they all coming from? Have
you asked them?
You
’re loo
ou
kin
t the
g
window at the couple
moving in across and two houses down. Looks like
about a 3 year old boy and twin somethings in

diapers. Whew
! Aren’t you glad those days are past
for you? Hopefully Jake and Amy Roberson will get
over to visi
liv
t
e on
th
e blo
em
ck o
v
th
er an
ey
d this
couple looks like they would be the right age for
their Sunday School class.
You’re glad to finsee allthat
y ohccupouse ied! It’s
been a month or more since anyone mowed the
lawn! Ouch! Why did you
Yes
h
,
ave to say that? “
Lord,” y
u
o
n
u
der
sa
your
y
breath
, “I know I have a
riding mower that would knock that out in an hour
or less and, yes,
I don’t
ha
r
ve
eally
to watch the
game this afternoon. But what if they don’t want
me to mow their lawn?
” You pause, though you
know the answYer
oualr’reerig
ask
ad
and
yh. t, “
they will receive.”
Riding up on your mower you ask if they would
mind if you helped them move in by mowing their
lawn. “Oh thatwould
in
b
u
e
niso
g
n.
reat!” theysay
“We moved from an apartment and we don’t even
own a mower yet. It’s on our ‘to get’ list.”
As you pull into their backyard you hit the speed
dial on your cell
this is Henry.
pho
Tu
n
rn
e.
off
“Jake,
the TV and grab your weed eater,
we’ve got a lawn
to do. And tell Amy to call my wife, they need to
get a casserole in the oven.”
Hmmm, the way you feel at this moment, this might
be a better way to spend some future Saturdays.
There sure have been a lot of moving vans lately.
School Activities:
Look around you. The school auditorium is packed.
The lights dim and the annual middle school spring
band concert in underway. As usual, the sixth grade
band plays first and you’re glad since you’re a sixth
grade parent. Following their stirring presentations
of the beginner classics
“Skip to My Lou” and
“Buffalo Gals”
th
graders
the
receive
6
their
participation ribbons. As they exit the stage to make
way for the 7
th
graders, most of their parents exit
the auditorium, too.
“How sad,” you think to yourself. “As much as I
would like to be at hom
th
e, it’s sad to think the 7
graders won’t h
t
a
o
v
per
e
for
a
m t
fu
o. An
ll
d
house
what will it look like by the time the best band, the
8
th
graders take the stage?” So, you determine to
persevere to the end.
Near the end, the young man who played the
impressive trumpet solo is also awarded the
Outstanding Middle School Band Member medal.
Judging from the smiles and camera flashes on your
row, that is his family sitting next to you.
As the lights come up, you introduce yourself as
fellow band parents and congratulate them on their
son
fin
’s
e job and award. As your respective
children approach they
th
respond, “You have a 6
grader an
d you’re still
are die
h
hard
er
ban
e?
d
You
parents!” “Well,” my
w
e wifwoe
uldrepln’t ies, “
have gotten to meet the band member of the year
if we hadn’t stay
pro
ed.
udly.
On
The
the
y smile
way out, the conversation continues and you tell
them about the orchestra at your church and how
several of the members are high school students. “If
you don’t have a chu
m
rch
sure ou
h
r
ome already, I’
minister of music would be interested in your son
being a part of our
The
m
y
u
sm
si
ile
c program.”
again.
“It was nice to meet you,” they say as they leave.
And you know, you feel like they really meant that.
It’s good to rejoice with those who rejoice…even if
you have to sit through a whole evening of middle
school bands to do it.
…do good, an
hopin
d
g
l
for
end,
nothing in return; and your reward
will be great, and you will be sons of
the Most High. For He is kind to the
unthankful and evil.
Give, and it will be given to you:
good measure, pressed down, shaken
together, and running over will be put
into your bosom. For with the same
measure that you use, it will be
measured back to you.

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Luke 6:35, 38 (NKJV)

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SESSION FOUR: SERVE
Daily Acts of Grace
Shopping
Eating Out
My Workplace
My Neighborhood
School Activities
Meeting a Need
Who are the three people that God has placed on my heart to pray for fervently?
1_______________________ 2____________________ 3____________________
What are two acts of grace I could perform to meet a specific need for each of them?
_______________________ ____________________ ____________________
_______________________ ____________________
____________________
How gracious am I?
Who or what types of people do I see here?
Do I engage people here and if so, how?
What is my attitude
when I’m
? Am
h
I
ere
patient,
considerate, pre-occupied, frazzled, etc?
Do I regularly consider the kind of day others are
having? Do I ever ask? Do I listen for clues?
Do my words and actions grace those around me?
Do my words and actions make this experience
better or easier for those around me?
If given the option,
te
w
m
ould
e
these people “vo
off the island?”

WEEK FIVE: FOLLOW UP
BEFORE THE SESSION BEGINS
Obtain a few
copies of the New Believer’s
material for display. If your resources allow,
it would be helpful for each individual or
couple to have a copy for their own
reference during this session and to use, if
needed, for a one-on-one follow-up.
Read through your lesson plan and
familiarize yourself with the New Believer’s
material.
OPENING (10 minutes)
Take a few minutes to open your class with your
usual procedures (welcome guests, call for prayer
requests / reports, announcements, etc.).
INTRODUCTION: PASS IT ON (5 minutes)
Go therefore and make disciples of all the
nations, baptizing them in the name of the
Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
teaching them to observe all things that I have
commanded you; and lo, I am with you always,
even to the end of the age. Amen.
Matthew 28:19-20 (NKJV)
The Great Commission is our marching orders as
Christians! If you have been a Christian for very long
you’ve probably heard more than one sermon
preached from this text
, and if it
serm
wasn’t
on
a
on missions, then it was probably a sermon on
evangelism. But notice that the disciple making
process is actually in three parts.
1) We make disciples.
To convince someone to willingly follow
another person, code or philosophy is to
“make the
iscipm a dle” of such. When we
lead people to Christ, we are not informing
them about Christ, we are leading them to
commit to follow Him. Understanding what
we are saying in the plan of salvation is not
the same thing as them repenting and
committing to follow Him. But once they
do, once they have become a disciple of
Christ, they have initiated the process.
2) We are to baptize them.
We know that only one person, usually a
church staff member, will actually perform
the baptism; just as baptism is a symbol of
what God has done in the life of a new
believer, it is also a strong symbol of
obedience on the part of the believer.
Baptizing them is actually another way of
saying “leading them into a life of
obedience.” There will be a lifetime of
learning and growing in this area, but those
first basic steps are crucial, confessing Him
before men as they follow His example
through believer’s baptism.
3) Finally, we are to teach them to observe
ALL things.
This means establishing in them a desire
and method for lifelong learning by
exposing them to the gifts of prayer and the
Word of God, and by showing them the joy
that comes from sharing their faith.
THE ROLE OF DISCIPLER (10 minutes)
Paul understood what an honor it was to be a
discipler of men.
Read Colossians 1:24-29.
Is there any doubt after reading this passage that
Paul was committed to making the message clearly
and widely known among the believers in these
new churches? He was writing from prison and was
basically sayin
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Just like parents and siblings, when established
believers bring a new member into the family of
God, we have a responsibility to nurture them and
to teach them the basics so they can continue to
grow to full maturity.
When you personally lead someone to the Lord, it
may not be possible for you to be the one who
fulfills the role of the long term one-on-one
discipler. Issues of geography, gender, age
difference, etc., may make this impossible or
unadvisable. It may even be that ongoing

discipleship will need to take place in a small group
setting. Whatever the circumstances, when you
lead someone to the Lord, it is your responsibility to
encourage them and do all you can to see that they
receive this nurturing from a strong Christian church
or individual.
However, if you receive and accept the call from
God to serve as a discipler of a new believer, here
are a few things to keep in mind.
1) Remember that it is the work of God
through His Holy Spirit that we are
facilitating.
It’s
our
not
about
persuasiveness or our ideas, so pray that
the Holy Spirit will create a hunger in the
new believer and that He will guide your
thoughts during the discipling process.
2) Because it is His work, lead the new believer
to focus on his/her relationship with Jesus
Christ more than simply changing outward
behaviors.
3) We cannot lead where we have not been.
So continue to personally study the Word,
remain steadfast in prayer and continue to
share your faith with others. Also, read and
understand whatever material you are
using to disciple the new believer.
4) Choose
good
material
that
will
progressively and understandably lead a
new believer through the basics and toward
a deeper relationship with Christ. Use
material that they can read and handle on
their own when the initial accountability
time ends.
MY316 NEW BELIEVER’S BOOK
(25 minutes)
A great resource for leading a one-on-one or small
group discipling process
is the “MY316 New
Believer’s Book.” It is a 7 lesson study that will help
a new believer establish a strong foundation for
their new life in Christ.
Distribute copies of the New Believer’s Book for the
class to follow as you lead them through this
overview. At the end of each lesson
’s
description,
ask for comments from the class. Prompt responses
with questions like:
Did anyone share this with you as a new
believer?
Why do you think this information is
important for the new believer?
What do you feel will happen to a new
believer if they miss or gain a good
understanding of this concept?
At what point in your Christian walk did you
grasp this concept? Would knowing it
earlier have helped you?
LESSON 1
Even if you were to begin a discipling relationship
next week, it will be easy for you to start using this
resource because it begins with what you have
already learned in the MY316 study by sharing your
story with others.
There is no more excited witness than the new
believer, but if we as seasoned believers have
difficulty in knowing what and how to share,
imagine how the new believer feels! Lesson 1 re-
emphasizes what has happened in their life using
John 3:16 and helps them understand how to
express that in words of their own.
It is highly likely that a new believer will have even
more lost friends than the seasoned church
member, so Lesson 1 also helps them begin to focus
on who they know that needs to hear their story
and begin to examine how they can serve and pray
for these people.
LESSON 2
Obedience is the theme of Lesson 2. It starts with
baptism which is vitally important in the life of a
new believer for a variety of reasons…not the least
of which is the fact that it is the first step of
obedience to confess Him before men. It is also
important to the discipleship process as it links the
new believer to a supportive church family. From
there, Lesson 2 moves to
obeying His Word
helps on studying His Word
life changes that obedience can bring
LESSON 3
By now the new believer is probably confronting a
lot of new issues and inner struggles. Among those
is the need to stay connected with God on a
personal level, not just vicariously through you or
the church. Lesson 3 deals with prayer; not just how
to pray, but also it’s power, it’s comfort and it’s
place in our lives.

LESSON 4
Lesson 4 teaches the transforming love of Christ
and starts the new believer on the path to loving
and serving others. It reminds us that love is a
three way street: He loves us, we love Him and, by
His power, we love others.
This lesson uses a lot of Bible references, so it also
enhances the new believer’s knowledge of and
comfort with the written Word of God. As with all
of the lessons, it not only introduces new concepts,
but continues to reinforce practices previously
taught.
LESSON 5
Hopefully by week 5 you have helped the new
believer find a place of belonging in their new
church family…a Sunday School class, a small group
study, etc. But there is so much more scripturally
and pragmatically to the church than a weekly Bible
study or fellowship group.
Lesson 5 deals with the church as the bride of Christ
and the body of Christ. It also helps the new
believer
understand
the
importance
and
relationship of the ordinances of baptism and the
Lord’s supper.
LESSON 6
Jesus said, “In the world you will have tribulation…”
(John 16:33). By now a new believer often begins to
wrestle with the realization that their faith has not
insulated them from suffering. They try to
rationalize a loving God and a suffering world. They
question persecution they may be suffering because
of their new faith and lifestyle.
Lesson 6 will give them encouragement for the
difficult times.
LESSON 7
Lessons 1-
6 were “boot camp.” The new believer
has received the manual and has been educated as
to the expectations of the general and wiles of the
enemy. Now it’s off to war!
Lesson 7 commissions and deploys the new believer
with the understanding that the church does not
enjoy a home field advantage. They are being sent
as missionaries to redeem a world that has turned
away from God.
CLOSING (10 minutes)
As you close this study, ask the group to re-examine
the meaning of MY316.
MY: Have you taken it personally?
Have you
determined how to weave your story into His story?
Have you committed yourself to doing whatever
God calls you to do to see your lost friends and
family members come to know Him?
3: Have you asked God for a focused burden for
three people close to you? Are you praying for them
daily?
1: Are you asking God expectantly for an
opportunity to share one-on-one with one or more
of these for whom you have been praying? Are you
willing to commit to being a disciple maker?
6: Have you identified and determined to follow
through on six specific acts of service you can do to
demonstrat
e God’s love to those for whom you are
praying? Have you determined that your walk will
match your talk?
Ask for any closing comments from the group and
then have a time of prayer with and for the group.

WEEK FIVE: FOLLOW UP
Option 2
We’ve all heard the sad and tragic stories of
children who were victims of neglect. Some of the
worst chronicle infants, brought home from the
hospital and then practically ignored. If, by some
miracle they physically survive, they are often too
emotionally or socially backward to live a
meaningful life. No one has told them what to do,
what is expected of them, what their potential is. In
some of the worst cases of neglect, they die from
what doctors call a
“failure to thri
f
ve.” The laying o
a strong foundation for a healthy, happy and whole
person is not completed in the birth event. It is the
result of a process of nurturing, mentoring and
maturing.
The Bible speaks of salvation as being “born again.”
And as it is with a newborn baby, making a healthy,
happy and whole disciple is a process, not an event.
The Great Commission, Matthew 28:19-20, outlines
the process for us.
1) We make disciples.
To convince someone to willingly follow
another person, code or philosophy is to
“make the
discipm a le” of such. When we
lead people to Christ, we are not informing
them about Christ, we are leading them to
commit to follow Him. Understanding what
we are saying in the plan of salvation is not
the same thing as them repenting and
committing to follow Him. But once they
do, once they have become a disciple of
Christ, they have initiated the process.
2) We are to baptize them.
We know that only one person, usually a
church staff member, will actually perform
the baptism, but just as baptism is a symbol
of what God has done in the life of a new
believer, it is also a strong symbol of
obedience on the part of the believer.
Baptizing them is actually another way of
saying “leading them into a life of
obedience.” There will be a lifetime of
learning and growing in this area, but those
first basic steps are crucial…confessing Him
before men as they follow His example
through believer’s baptism.
3) Finally, we are to teach them to observe
ALL things.
This means establishing in them a desire
and method for lifelong learning by
exposing them to the gifts of prayer and the
Word of God, and by showing them the joy
that comes from sharing their faith.
Paul was a great evangelist and a master at
persuading others to receive the grace and love of
Christ. But Paul was also a discipler and understood
there was a need to go deeper with the Lord. And
Paul understood what an honor it was to be a
discipler of men.
Read Colossians 1:24-29.
Is there any doubt after reading this passage that
Paul was committed to making the message clearly
and widely known among the believers in these
new churches? He was writing from prison and was
basically saying, “It’s all worth it if it helps you get
the Message and brings you to maturity in Christ.”
Ask your class.
Who were or are your disciplers?
Allow a few to share briefly.
Just like parents and siblings, when established
believers bring a new member into the family of
God, we have a responsibility to nurture them and
to teach them the basics so they can continue to
grow to full maturity.
MY316 calls for us to be disciplers. It provides
training and the materials in the form of a New
Believer’s book to nurture new believers. But it still
requires godly Christians who will commit to
becoming a discipler of new believers.
Is God calling you?

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